Re: (idm) plaid and females

From Che
Sent Sat, Nov 1st 1997, 15:58

On Sat, 1 Nov 1997, Christopher Fahey wrote:

> Heard of something called "misogyny"?
> 
> Lots of people like vocal music for reasons other that "it sells better".
> Let's forget for a moment the fact that it's possible for a man to be a
> vocalist (global goon and RDJ come to mind in this genre) and let's just
> cut to the chase and bust open the old "Women in IDM" topic again for old
> times sake.  I think many IDM instrumental acts are without vocals
> because the musicians, like you, probably are such tight ass wonks that 
> they
> can't stand being around any women interesting enough to want to be in a 
> band
> with.

I know a lot of men who prefer music with vocals.  God, what a FUCKING 
MISANTHROPE I AM for daring to write that!

> Let me ask you something... If you think your wife is such a loser why
> thehell did you marry her? You clearly look down on "females" and you made 
> a
> point of including your wife in your derision. People like you really bug
> me out.

Unlike you, I don't believe that someone who has different tastes from me
is a loser.  My wife prefers non-instrumental music; I prefer instrumental
music.  This is great - there is room for both, and there is music we 
both enjoy.  

The key here is that there was nothing derisive towards women in what I
wrote, but you, in your rush to judge everyone who doesn't fit your idea
of political correctness, interpreted it as such. Sorry you can't handle 
a true statement and have to read your own hatred of others into it. If I 
had written "virtually all the women I know have two arms, two legs, and 
two eyes", would you say that I "clearly look down on 'females'?  Why is 
one observation more derogatory than the other?  I made NO value 
judgement - you did.

Che